Liebe Leute, ich muss euch hier an dieser Stelle etwas mitteilen. Es ist wirklich sehr beschämend und extrem enttäuschend für mich. Erst vor ein paar Tagen bin ich in diesen Thread reingegrätscht und habe das Ansehen dieses Mannes verteidigt. Das was jetzt kommt hat nicht direkt mit den Dingen zu tun über die wir gesprochen haben, wird aber das Misstrauen bestätigen: John Yates hat scheinbar in den vergangenen 4 Jahren seine Ehefrau wiederholt betrogen, sie angelogen und ohne ihr Wissen mit Geld das ihr zusteht, einige dieser Frauen unterstützt. Zehn sollen es gewesen sein, darunter auch Prostituierte. Es gibt kein Anzeichen dafür, dass er einen unmoralischen oder ungewollten, sexuellen Kontakt mit Schülern gehabt haben sollte.
Diese Benachrichtigung vom Dharma Treasure Vorstand haben wir vor kurzem erhalten, zu dem unter anderen die beiden Co-Autoren des Buches gehören und Nancy Yates selbst:
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It was recently brought to the attention of Dharma Treasure Board members that John Yates (Upasaka Culadasa) has engaged in ongoing conduct unbecoming of a Spiritual Director and Dharma teacher. He has not followed the upasaka (layperson) precepts of sexual harmlessness, right speech, and taking what is not freely given.
We thoroughly reviewed a substantial body of evidence, contemplated its significance, and sought confidential counsel from senior Western Dharma teachers, who urged transparency. We also sought legal advice and spoke with various non-profit consultants to draw on their expertise and objectivity in handling this matter. As a result of our process, the Board has voted to remove Mr. Yates from all positions with Dharma Treasure.
In a series of Board meetings as well as written correspondences with Mr. Yates, he admitted to being involved in a pattern of sexual misconduct in the form of adultery. There is no evidence that this adultery involved improper interactions with students or any form of unwanted sexual advances. Rather, adultery with multiple women, some of whom are sex workers, took place over the past four years. The outcome was extended relationships with a group of about ten women. Relationships with some continue to the present day.
He has provided significant financial support to some of these women, a portion of which was given without the prior knowledge or consent of his wife. Mr. Yates also said he engaged in false speech by responding to his wife’s questions with admissions, partial truths, and lies during these years.
After we brought this misconduct to the attention of Mr. Yates, he agreed to write a letter to the Sangha disclosing his behavior, which would give students informed consent to decide for themselves whether to continue studying with him. However, after weeks of negotiations, we were unable to come to an agreement about the content and degree of transparency of his letter.
At the end of this entire process, we are sadly forced to conclude that Mr. Yates should not be teaching Dharma at this time. Likewise, we are clear that keeping the upasaka (layperson) vows is an absolutely essential foundation for serving as the Spiritual Director of Dharma Treasure. With heavy hearts, the Board has voted to remove him from this role, from the Board, and from all other positions associated with Dharma Treasure.
We also acknowledge the benefit of Mr. Yates’ scholarship, meditation instructions, and the personal guidance he has provided for so many earnest seekers, including ourselves. People from all over the world have been deeply impacted by the Dharma he has presented, and we do not wish to minimize the good he has done. We are forever grateful for the study and practice we have all undertaken together with Mr. Yates.
We know people may feel disbelief and dismay upon learning about this pattern of behavior. However, it is our strong wish that we all use this time as an opportunity to practice patient inquiry, compassion, and discernment. Our goal in sharing this information with the Sangha is to provide each of you with enough information to make your own informed decision about whether or how to work with Mr. Yates as a teacher. We hope this transparency about Mr. Yates’ behavior can help us all move toward a place where we honor teachers for their gifts while acknowledging they are complex human beings who make mistakes.
You can imagine this has been a long, methodical, and distressing process. Moving forward, we feel it is in the best interest of the organization to form a new Board that brings fresh perspectives and energy. The current Board will resign after vetting and electing new qualified Board members to carry on the mission of Dharma Treasure.
Finally, we hope this disclosure about Mr. Yates’ conduct does not shake your confidence in the Buddha, Dharma, and Sangha. The transformative strength of refuge in the triple treasure can sustain us through this challenging time. Many other communities have walked this difficult path and emerged wiser and stronger. The ancient and modern history of Buddhism is filled with examples of the Dharma’s liberating individual and social power and compassion. Let us never forget that.
In service, The Dharma Treasure Board of Directors Blake Barton Jeremy Graves Matthew Immergut Eve Smith Nancy Yates
Er wurde aus diesem Vorstand rausgewählt und es ist nicht klar wie es weiter gehen wird. Auf reddit wird die Situation jetzt auch diskutiert: Important Message from the Dharma Treasure Board of Directors : TheMindIlluminated
Unter den Usern war auch John dabei und schrieb dies als Antwort:
ZitatPlease do not take this letter as fact. It includes false information, and distortions and misrepresentations of fact. I, in fact, resigned from the Dharma Treasure Board due to irreconcilable differences including their refusal to engage in mediation. Rather than accept my resignation as tendered, they chose to vote me off the Board and remove me as Spiritual Director of Dharma Treasure. A fuller and more complete explanation will be forthcoming. In the mean time, I strongly recommend everyone hold off on jumping to conclusions or engaging in analysis or commentary. We are taking our time (myself and my advisors) so as to respond in the healthiest and most appropriate way with the best interest of all parties in mind. Thank you, Culadasa
Mir fällt es schwer zu glauben, dass die Mitglieder des Vorstands falsche oder verdrehte Informationen verbreiten sollten. Es bleibt abzuwarten wie sich das weiterentwickelt. Ich hoffe, dass alle die sich für dieses Meditationssystem interessieren oder es selbst praktizieren sich nicht davon verunsichern lassen oder denken, dass wir die mit John Yates zu tun haben oder hatten, so etwas in Ordnung finden würden. Die Methoden selbst sind altbewährt. Was zu bedenken gibt ist die Tatsache, dass Meditations-Meister nicht zwangsläufig perfekte Menschen sind. Dass dieser Mann Ahnung hat von diesen Themen und weit in seiner spirituellen Praxis ist, ist etwas woran ich trotz alledem keinen Zweifel habe.
Ironischer weise ist das ein Thema über das er selbst sprach, dass es möglich sei einen hohen Grad an Weisheit zu erlangen und gleichzeitig in anderen Bereichen was die psychische oder moralische Entwicklung betrifft es noch mit Baustellen zu tun zu haben.
Aber es bleibt abzuwarten und zu hören was alle Beteiligten weiterhin dazu zu sagen haben.
Wir werden euch auf dem Laufenden halten.